...与上帝保持恋爱就是纯粹被愤怒地被爱。一个认为自己不可爱的人不能与上帝建立关系，因为他不能接受上帝是谁。一个爱。我们了解到，我们对别人的可爱或无法享受……这就是为什么上帝告诉我们很多次彼此相爱的原因。
(...to be in a relationship with God is to be loved purely and furiously. And a person who thinks himself unlovable cannot be in a relationship with God because he can't accept who God is; a Being that is love. We learn that we are lovable or unlovable from other people...That is why God tells us so many times to love each other.)