亲爱的,悲伤不是一个事件,而是一条通道,沿着一条路径的朝圣,使我们能够从灵魂中持有的纪念点反思过去。有时,脚下的石头充满了,我们对记忆感到痛苦,但在其他日子里,阴影反映了我们的渴望和那些幸福。(Grief is not an event, my dear, but a passage, a pilgrimage along a path that allows us to reflect upon the past from points of remembrance held in the soul. At times the way is filled with stones underfoot and we feel pained by our memories, yet on other days the shadows reflect our longing and those happinesses shared.)