我发现,犹豫,最重要的是,这是使我无法喜悦的隐形障碍。我发现,当我重新考虑是否输入时,所有含义的瞬间就可以继续前进。我并不是说我们应该永远是冲动的。更重要的是,我一次又一次地发现,偶然地知道我需要做什么,只是否认它,这是如此小的犹豫,这种很小的抵抗能够进入真实的东西,使生活感到中立或遥不可及。
(I have found that hesitation, more than anything, has been the invisible hitch that has kept me from joy. I've found that the moment with all its meaningoften moves on by the time I've reconsidered whether or not to enter it. I am not saying we should always be impulsive. More to the point, I have discovered, again and again, that Iusually know what I need to do but just deny it, and it is this small hesitation, this small resistance to enter what is real, that makes life feel neutral or out of reach.)
在马克·尼波(Mark Nepo)的《觉醒书》(The The Awakening of Mark Nepo)的摘录中,作者反思了犹豫如何阻碍了他体验快乐并拥抱有意义的时刻的能力。他强调,在辩论是否完全与生活互动时,过度思考的行为会导致机会溜走。这突出了出现并认识到何时采取行动而不是陷入疑问的重要性。
Nepo建议,尽管冲动并不总是理想的,但他经常知道自己需要做什么,但允许小小的犹豫将他拒之门外。这种抵抗可以使人们与人生的丰富感产生一种分离的感觉,从而使经历变得无法满足。最终,他提倡对这些时刻提高意识,并鼓励他们毫不拖延地拥抱它们,以实现更加充满活力和联系的生存。