我想到了日常生活中需要的频率。我们如何感到孤独，有时甚至是眼泪，但是我们不让那些眼泪来来，因为我们不应该哭泣。或者我们如何感受到对伴侣的爱的热潮，但我们什么也没说，因为我们害怕这些话可能会对这种关系做些什么。
(I thought about how often this was needed in everyday life. How we feel lonely, sometimes to the point of tears, but we don't let those tears come because we are not supposed to cry. Or how we feel a surge of love for a partner but we don't say anything because we're frozen with the fear of what those words might do to the relationship.)
(I thought about how often this was needed in everyday life. How we feel lonely, sometimes to the point of tears, but we don't let those tears come because we are not supposed to cry. Or how we feel a surge of love for a partner but we don't say anything because we're frozen with the fear of what those words might do to the relationship.)
作者Mitch Albom
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这句话反映了许多人在日常生活中面临的情感斗争，尤其是孤独的感觉和表达爱的困难。通常，人们压抑自己的感情，掩盖自己的眼泪或避免由于社会期望或害怕脆弱性而分享感情。这种内部冲突也会导致一种孤立感，即使在最接近我们的人中。
莫里（Morrie）在“周二与莫里（Morrie）的星期二”中的见解强调了拥抱我们情绪的重要性 - 都是悲伤和喜悦。通过鼓励对爱的公开表达和接受我们的感受，他促进了与他人的更深层次的联系。对情感曝光的恐惧会阻碍关系，这表明真正的沟通对于培养亲密和理解至关重要。
