这使我的心变得如此沉重。年轻人不必死，他们的父母不必一生都要度过余生，这使一切看起来都正确，说：“至少我的男孩很勇敢。”或者，“我们为他做了自己的一场比赛而感到自豪。
(It makes my heart so heavy. Young men shouldn't have to die, and their parents shouldn't have to go through the rest of their lives making everything seem right by saying, 'At least my boy was brave.' Or, 'We're proud he did his bit.)