通过足够的生活，我们所有人都了解了这种理解，尽管很难接受：无论我们选择尊重哪种途径，总会有冲突来谈判。如果我们选择避免与他人的所有冲突，我们最终将在自己内部繁殖有毒的冲突。同样，如果我们设法参加内心生活，那么我们迟早会与那些愿意让我们成为其他事物的人产生一些不和谐。
(Living through enough, we all come to this understanding, though it is difficult to accept: No matter what path we choose to honor, there will always be conflict to negotiate.If we choose to avoid all conflict with others, we will eventually breed a poisonous conflict within ourselves. Likewise, if we manage to attend our inner lives, who we are will - sooner or later - create some discord with those who would rather have us be something else.)