我的祖母有一个非常有趣的理论。她说，我们每个人天生都有一盒比赛，但我们不能独自打动他们。就像在实验中一样，我们需要氧气和蜡烛来提供帮助。例如，在这种情况下，氧气将来自您所爱的人的呼吸。蜡烛可能是任何形式的食物，音乐，爱抚，文字或声音，会引起爆炸，点燃其中一场比赛
(My grandmother had a very interesting theory; she said that each of us is born with a box of matches inside us but we can't strike them all by ourselves; just as in the experiment, we need oxygen and a candle to help. In this case, the oxygen, for example, would come from the breath of the person you love; the candle could be any kind of food, music, caress, word, or sound that engenders the explosion that lights one of the matches)