他不应该想知道他母亲发生的事情,这会发生在他的妻子,他的姐妹,女儿身上吗?
(Shouldn't he want to know about something that has happened to his mother, that will happen to his wife, his sisters, his daughter and, I went on morosely, if ever he has an affair, even to his mistress?)
阿扎尔·纳菲西(Azar Nafisi)在她的回忆录《德黑兰的洛丽塔》(Lolita in Tehran)中反映了个人关系和社会规范的深刻影响。她提出了一个关于同理心和意识的重要问题,思考为什么人们不寻求了解女性家庭成员的斗争和经历。这种沉思凸显了忽略妇女问题的广泛主题,这表明缺乏对她们一生所面临的持续挑战的关注。
此外,纳菲西的思想扩展到了男性角色生活中冷漠的含义,指出对女性斗争的无知也会影响她们的人际关系和未来的交往。这是对性别的社会动态和期望的批评,敦促读者考虑了解妇女在各种角色(从母亲到潜在的浪漫伴侣)中的体验的重要性。