他说，有时候，这比给出的要大得多。卡罗琳问。让对方给你他所提供的东西。如果您一直是奉献者，那么您永远不必感到失望，因为您不会期望任何回报。但这是以自己的方式惨烈的。因为您永远不会让自己开放或给对方一个机会。
(Sometimes it's more generous to take than give,he said.How? Caroline asked.To let the other person give you what he has to offer. If you're always the one giving, you never have to feel disappointed, because you don't expect anything in return. But it's miserly in its own way. Because you never leave yourself open or give the other person a chance.)