我觉得这种愤怒根本不是关于孩子的。它在我体内，正在中毒我的许多关系。它给同情心留下了很少的空间。我必须克服它。我可能需要一些帮助，我不知道。但是我今天意识到了一些疏gried的东西。我无法改变过去。我不能收回伤害。但是，如果我可以学习如何接受，我可以软化它。
(This anger I felt wasn't about the child at all. It's inside me and it's poisoning so many of my relationships. It leaves so little room for compassion." She reached up to wipe a tear from her face. "That's no way to live. I have to get over it. I may need some help, I don't know. But I realized something today dredging up all those murky memories. I can't change the past. I can't take the hurt back. But I can soften it if I can just learn how to accept it.)