The mind has an inherent mechanism that filters experiences based on their perceived beauty or ugliness. It tends to embrace what it finds pleasant and reject what feels painful or unappealing. This filtering process deeply influences our emotional states and reactions to various situations in life.
As we navigate our thoughts and feelings, we often find ourselves trying to avoid negative states like greed, lust, hatred, aversion, and jealousy. By understanding this mechanism, we can learn to manage our reactions and cultivate a more mindful, balanced mindset, as suggested in Bhante Henepola Gunaratana’s "Mindfulness in Plain English."