他告诉他的朋友，如果他们真的想帮助他，他们不会同情，而是通过访问，电话，分享他们的问题的方式对待他 - 他们一直以来。
(He told his friends that if they really wanted to help him, they would treat him not with sympathy but with visits, phone calls, a sharing of their problems - the way they had always.. because Morrie had always been a wonderful listener.)