如何感受生活的痛苦而不否认它,而不让这种痛苦定义我们。最终,无论我们的负担是什么负担,癌症,虐待,抑郁,成瘾 - 束缚在骨头上,我们都面临着永无止境的选择:成为伤口或治愈。(how to feel the pain of living without denying it and without letting that pain define us. Ultimately, no matter the burden we are given-apartheid, cancer, abuse, depression, addiction-once whittled to the bone, we are faced with a never-ending choice: to become the wound or to heal.)