刘易斯(Lewis)表明,直到我们放弃主张,我们的权利和不满之前,没有真正的爱。在那之前,我们将被困在内心混合动机的晦涩之中,我们拥有,控制,成为我们自己的神灵的意愿。
(No true love is possible, Lewis demonstrates, until we abandon our claims, our rights, our grievances. Until then we will be trapped in the obscurity of our heart's mixed motives, our will to possess, to control, to be our own gods.)