人们太容易从他人身上脱身。但是，由于某种原因，每当他们考虑改变自己时，重点总是放在他们放弃的东西上，从来没有收获的东西
(People submit tooeasily to change from others. And yet, for some reason, wheneverthey consider changing themselves, the focus is always on what theyare giving up, never what they are about to gain)