著名的英国儿童心理学家D. W. Winnicott称我们的真实自我和虚假的自我称呼为个性的这些方面。真正的自我使我们能够知道什么是真实的,什么是人为的,而虚假的自我是不信任的外交官,实施了守卫,保密和抱怨的生活方式。(The famous British child psychologist D. W. Winnicott called these aspects of personality our True Self and False Self. It is the True Self that lets us know what is authentic and what has become artificial, while the False Self is a diplomat of distrust, enforcing a lifestyle of guardedness, secrecy, and complaint.)