关系没有公式。他们必须以充满爱的方式进行谈判，为双方提供空间，了解他们想要什么和需要什么，他们能做什么以及他们的生活是什么样的。
(There is no formula to relationships. They have to be negotiated in loving ways, with room for both parties, what they want and what they need, what they can do and what their life is like.)
