她说:“在您出生之前发生的事情仍然会影响您。” ``那些在您之前的人也影响了您。我们每天都在不适合那些在我们面前的人。我们花了很多时间的工作场所 - 我们经常认为它们始于我们的到来。那不是真的。 ``如果不是为了埃米尔,我将没有丈夫。如果不是因为我们的婚姻,那将没有码头。如果没有码头,您将不会最终在那里工作。(Things that happen before you are born still affect you,' she said. 'And people who come before your time affect you as well.We move through places every day that would never have been if not for those who came before us. Our workplaces, where we spend so much time- we often think they began with our arrival. That's not true.'She tapped her fingertips together. 'If not for Emile, I would have no husband. IF not for our marriage, there would be no pier. If there'd been no pier, you would not have ended up working there.)