当涉及到我们的孩子时,我们大多数人都很自私。我们想要他们的东西:爱,看到他们做得很好的满足感,依此类推。很多父母不仅认为孩子的最大利益。哦,他们可能会为此提供口头服务,但他们真的想到了自己从育儿中得到的东西。
(Most of us are quite selfish when it comes to our children, you know. We want things from them: love, the satisfaction of seeing them do well, and so on. Plenty of parents don't think just of their child's best interest. Oh, they may pay lip service to it, but they really think of themselves, of what they get from parenting.)