非辅助不是自满。这并不意味着缺乏关怀和承诺。非依恋的哲学是基于这样的理解，即坚持这些事物过于紧密，无论如何，这些事情总是会穿过我们的手指，痛苦并给我们绳子燃烧。
(Non-attachment is not complacency. It doesn't imply a lack of caring and commitment. The philosophy of non-attachment is based in the understanding that holding on too tightly to those things, which in any case are always going to be slipping through our fingers, hurts and gives us rope burn.)