我们都应该忙于成为自己的身份，尽管我们中的许多人没有，并花费太多的时间和精力是其他东西。我们试图成为别人想要我们成为的事物，或者我们自己想要成为的东西。然后我们突然意识到我们的生活已经过去了，我们还没有成为我们真正的人
(We should all busy ourselves in being who we are, although many of us do not and spend so much time and energy being something else. We try to be what others want us to be, or what we ourselves want to be. And then we suddenly realise that our lives have shot past and we have not got round to being who we really)