生活中要学习的惨痛教训之一是,有些事情你可以控制,有些事情你不能控制。如果你想要一个缓解沮丧和痛苦的简短方法,那就是:专注于你无法控制的事情。
(One of the hard lessons to learn in life is that there are some things you can control and some things you can't. If you want a short recipe for being frustrated and miserable, this is it: focus on things you can't control.)